This report on websites aimed at helping foreign men seduce Korean women is getting some play in the Korean media. I couldn’t locate the first website, www.korea****.com, using the search terms “Korean women,” “field reports,” and “guides and tips,” with or without a .com site restriction. I did locate what looks to be the website selling the $20 E-book on snaring Korean women here. If you’re not sure whether the website is a spoof, check out the testimonials, and if you’re still curious, click the order button. There’s a review here. Clicking on the second link in the left menu will take you to a spoof site for Asian men looking to score.
Yet Another Foreign Male Predator Story
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Korea is so easily trolled. The GNAA should get in on this action.
I don’t get why there isn’t equal attention paid to the countless resources available to make foreign friends. I mean, if you look at all these “make English friend” websites with the same scrutiny as you look at these sites, they look just as predatory.
Fuck, if anybody wanted to make a demeaning website full of hints on how to score with Korean chicks, all you’d have to do is put up translations from the Korean “sports papers.”
The publication for “dating Korean women” appeas like a well thought out publication aiming at a particular niche market. I give the author credit for his entreprenurial efforts.
The book probably doesn’t suggest people lie, cheat, decieve and use Korean women. It seems the purpose is how to navigate through the cultural obstacles as best one can… a road map if you will for getting from A-Z with a minimum of difficulties and confusion for both parties. Essentially it would be about how to put your best foot forward so to speak. I’m sure Korean women would probably approve of men putting their best foot forward or learning how to socially present oneself and behave in the best possible manner re Korean women (ie, having a shave, sending lots of text messages and preparing some kind of 이벤트 etc). Obviosuly the book wouldn’t attempt to slander Korean women coz that would defeat the purpose. But who knows? Anyone?
Judging by the writeup in the photo, it appears to be KoreaLair.
Another option would be to google one of the distinct phrases (with quotes around it) from the photo and see what website pops up, but I’m not particularly interested in nailing Korean women in the first place. Been there, done that, moved on.
In Korea, food seems to be a good icebreaker. Ask the girl what her favorite food is and then offer to take her out to dinner sometime. They can’t resist it. Korean women love eating, especially in a nice restaurant.
great, gbevers is giving pickup advice. hey gerry, what do you recommend we talk about during the nice meal in the nice restaurant? Korean-Japanese territorial disputes? Can you resist it?
I guess I should also pretend that there aren’t three separate ads for KoreaCupid on this page.
And I love watching Korean women eat…especially when they talk as they chew.
lolololol @ CMM.
That was funny.
Not really.
Cmm (#7),
If the girl is talkative, let her choose the topic. If she is speaking English, tell her how well she speaks. If she says she is thinking about getting an eye operation, tell her you like her eyes the way they are. However, do not go overboard with the compliments and do not be aggressive. Wait for them to change the topic to something more intimate, and wait for them make the first move. Just be friendly and charming and wait for the signal.
As you see, I am a smooth operator.
My oh my SweetLou, then you must break out into a full-blown seizure when they slurp slurp slurp their ramyun. How — or why — do you put up with such horrible people?
I don’t. That’s why I left (and still reserve the right to piss and moan).
Good for you my friend. That’s doing yourself — and them — a big favor.
way to bring the em-dash back, btw. doesn’t get enough play these days with everyone ‘…’ing.
I was never aware that dating Korean women was any kind of problem for non-K men, nor even a particularily great challenge… making relationships work out long-term, however… maybe that needs a how-to book.
sanshinseon, those of us who are–ahem–older, are usually never given much of a second glance. With all this talk of predatory foreigners, and foreigners stealing their women, and Korean women debasing themselves just to be a foreigner’s whore… all I can think is where do I get in on that action? I obviously hang out in the wrong crowds and wrong part of town.
Right. Where’s the genius who’s writing the book, “How to keep from strangling your former Korean girlfried after 10 years of marriage”
(Follow link to also enjoy a youtube video of a spit-eating poodle)
Must be. I’ll bet I’m older than you, and I’ve got to beat ‘em off with a mokkum; if I didn’t my wife would give me a Bobbit. LOL.
I am sitting in a pc room and the Korean guy next to me is reading an on-line newspaper that mentions this same subject. Every so often he glances over at me and gives me a menacing look. I am with Darth on this – at my age, I am definitely not the first person women look at when they feel the urge to get down and dirty…….
Well Sperwer, with arms like yours I would expect so…..
Also, it is good to see that Chase was such a good friend and edited the book for his friend, the author.
“And it’s a great, solid book, too. Having helped proofread the first version, I can attest the time and dedication that Blue put into strapping together a quality product. The sections on inner game and figuring out what you really want from a woman are fantastic and are applicable to ANY kind of girl, actually, and the suggestion that you pull up roots and MOVE to where the kind of women you want live is… well, not something you here from a lot of folks, but it’s great advice and quite refreshing.”
I hope he heres from a lot of people.
I can imagine.
I wonder how many of our younger commenters missed that pop culture reference.
@Sonagi
I would say I am a younger reader, but I did actually know what he was referring to.
Mostly because at the age of impressionable 16, my curious mind asked the vital question of “HOLY SHIT, WHAT IF MY DICK GOT CUT OFF OR SOMETHING, THEN WHAT?”
In my research at the time, the answers were most unsatisfactory.
Also, this was amusing to me:
http://img197.imageshack.us/im.....malepr.png
It is rare that I have adblock off, so I don’t typically notice these things.
@BrianD
Isn’t your girlfriend a Korean-Korean?
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Anyways, I want to know if there are any books written to Korean women–or men, for that matter–on how to land foreigners? Those portal Web sites simply instruct what to do when, “OMG! 외국인 is trying to talk to me!” I want to know how the tips on landing foreigner women from the Korean guys dating those 미녀의 수다 women.
I want to make a site with the express purpose of trolling Korea, hopefully inciting sufficient rage to get DDOSd. What inflammatory content should I put on this site?
Whoops…미녀들의 수다
A Korean-American shouldn’t need to take pointers from a Korean on how to pick up foreign women.
No, in fact I myself should write the book for them, but it wouldn’t be interesting. At all. It’d be boring. The far better read is how Korean-Korean men believe/perceive how to pick up foreigner women.
In the same way, this foreigner guy is professing all types of knowledge how to date/pick up Korean women — strictly from a foreigner’s perspective, which is tainted from foreigners being exotic delicacies in the dating world — getting the “ideas” of what Korean men think foreigner Western women are attracted to is something I am curious about. Would carrying their handbags or forcing them to call them 오빠 be on the list? Who knows.
Anywho, that there is a book teaching foreigner guys how to date Korean women is, while a good business idea, not very insightful–and, in my opinion, needed. The guy above who suggested there be a book about how to sustain a potential relationship is far more interesting.
For example, many of my foreigner male friends told me in Korea that their native Korean girlfriends spoke”fluent” English. The native Korean women did speak decent English–though usually it was just conversational, like how my Dad speaks English. What I found interesting was engaging conversation with those same girls in Korean and learning all types of personal information, thoughts about life and politics that the long-term boyfriend didn’t know. That to me is fascinating: How does it feel, and how do you navigate through a long-term relationship, where you know only 60% of your spouse? This book seems to be how to play cherades and simplify your English into Baby Gibberish so to communicate enough to get a girl on a date.
Me? (tap chest)
You? (point at girl)
Like! (make a heart sign with the thumb and index fingers; possibly, annunciate Like so that it becomes three syllables and is more like a Korean-ized pronunciation…La-EE-Ku)
See? I’m adding additional chapters for the next version already.
KrZ,
Post a news story in English, quoting a major Japanese daily, saying that Japanese lawmakers are in a furor over the sudden revelation of massive industrial espionage by Japanese-Koreans who lied about their ethnicity in job applications. Japanese engineers have reverse-engineered Korean cars, and electronics products made over the past 30 years and concluded that Korea’s ENTIRE engine of economic development was in fact stolen from Japan. The US and EU have made joint appeals to the WTO on Japan’s behalf to slap punitive duties on Korean exports worldwide, and moreover, to implement a regime of reparations on a scale not seen since the payments Germany was forced to make to France in the interwar period. It is estimated that Korea may have to divert as much as 15% of its GDP to Mitsubishi, Sony, Toyota and Toshiba for the next 20-25 years in order to make amends. Details are still emerging, but the newspaper claims to also have found several senior Japanese construction engineers who claim that in fact THEY were secretly hired as the chief engineers behind virtually every major Middle East construction project carried out by Hyundai and Daewoo in the 1980s. One of them apparently said “The Koreans couldn’t even dig a latrine without our help – how could they have built dams and superhighways on their own?” They said they signed non-disclosure agreements about their involvement, but since reading about these latest revelations about export products, they felt they had to come forward so that the world could see the extent of Korea’s bald-faced rip-off of Japan’s successful innovations. Other major industrial economies have now begun to reverse-engineer other Korean products, and the CIA, MI5 and others have begun to haul in ethnic Korean engineers for interrogations. The scandal is expected to widen…
That first line should say Korean-Japanese.
Maybe it could be used as an Englishee textbook to help out the locals with their game.
Big deal~! I’ve seen plenty of foreign men bashing from European countries too.
@Koreansentry
Haha. What would loser-ish French men do if it weren’t for U.S. Study Abroad programs?
You and some other commenters have missed the point of the post. It’s not the unremarkable foreign male bashing that is a regular staple of the Korean media. Rather, it’s that Yonhap, the source of the story, got punked by some foreign guy(s) who put up a spoof website selling a non-existent book. I don’t know the creator(s) of the website, but I’d wager their audience was Korean internet vigilantes.
http://www.datekoreanwomen.com/ is down. DDOS?
so is the main website, koreanlair.com it seems.
I don’t think the site was a hoax, Sonagi. It seems to be one of the main portals for the subculture of “PUA’s” in Korea. Do some googling on korean lair, “PUA lairs,” and the character BlueMystery. Then wiki the book “The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pick-up Artists.”
Well, I am not sure if you all heard……….
But…..
I am SHOCKED and APPALLED to have heard that some sleazy Korean pop star is out trolling for our white women! He even said she was “sexy!” (this disgusting man seems to know no shame people!!) Obviously, he just wants to use this poor women’s hot body for sex and then dump her, and then go back to Korea where he will promptly hire a prostitute at a room salon.
But the nasty brothel-romping habits of odd, sex-starved Korean men is beside the point…
And really, even if they do go out, how could they POSSIBLY deeply communicate about ANYTHING!? I mean, come on, how in the world does he expect to deeply UNDERSTAND and APPRECIATE our American anti-homogeneous culture and our way of doing things?
It’s PREPOSTEROUS!
Oh yes…I can see it now: Bi points at himself, then at Megan, and then he forms the shape of a heart with his hands. And then smiles.
OH MY GOD!!! HOW LASCIVIOUS AND DEBAUCHEROUS!!!
AND REMEMBER: he said specifically that he thinks Megan Fox is “SEXY!” We have it recorded on YOU TUBE!
OH. MY. GOD.
No, I really think we should put the FCC at work making sure that sleazy Korean men do not TROLL the United States for “sexy” American women!
So GROSS AND PREDATORY!!!! And remember: these predatory Korean pedophiliac men were just recently trolling south pacific islands for young school girls, getting them pregnant, not using condoms and giving them diseases. And OF COURSE WE ALL KNOW: all Korean men are the same!
SO WE SHOULD BE EXTRA CAREFUL TO BE VERY VIGILANT, ALERT, AND BE WILLING TO DO ANYTHING TO PROTECT OUR AMERICAN WOMEN FROM THESE SLEAZY MEN!!!
I am so deeply offended by this nasty Korean man making a move on our women that it makes me completely sick. And then here in this thread we have talk of “A Korean-American shouldn’t need to take pointers from a Korean on how to pick up foreign women.”
OH. MY. GOD.
They are even talking about “pointers” and “techniques” for picking up foreign women! These sleeze-bags of iniquity and sleaziness, all!!
Well, I am just so offended and appalled, that I simply have to publish this on a website for all my other friends to read.
Cheerio, mates!
“I obviously hang out in the wrong crowds and wrong part of town.”
I think just changing that wig will be a start
“How does it feel, and how do you navigate through a long-term relationship, where you know only 60% of your spouse?”
That’s silly. Does anyone know oneself completely?
Agree, Someguy, if we’re talking women then 60% would seem a pretty high achievement whever they speak the same language or not!!
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