The Hanguk Ilbo reports that “Kophinos,” the children of Korean fathers and Filipino mothers, are becoming a social issue in the Philippines and shame to Korea.
In fact, Korean sex tourism to the archipelago is becoming an international disgrace as it leads to a skyrocketing number of unwed mothers and Kophino children, and there is concern it could lead to serious diplomatic problems as well.
The kids have tough lives — left behind by their fathers, who are often students or tourists, most are born to poor single mothers and neglected without receiving proper education. There are no official statistics, but it’s believed that the number of Kophino children has skyrocked recently to 10,000, up from just 1,000 five years ago.
The growing problem is due to the overlap of a sharply growing number of Korean sex tourists and students and the Philippines’ Catholic culture, which views birth control and abortion as sins (as opposed to Korea, which clearly doesn’t). According to the Filipino tourism board, the number of Korean visitors to the islands has quadrupled since 1997, going from 170,000 to 650,000 last year.
This increase is because Filipino authorities have actively promoted the country as a golfing destination, and because the islands are a cheap place to study English. A travel industry official told the Hanguk Ilbo that Thursday and Friday flights to the Philippines are almost sold out, and with the political situation turning to shit in Thailand, the number of people heading to the Philippines is increasing even more.
Korean visitors play golf in the day and hit the red-light districts at night. Mr. A, a so-called “goose dad” (i.e., he works in Korea to support his wife and children, who are studying overseas, usually in North America), comes to the Philippines two or three times a year for three-day, two-night stays. He says for about US$300 a night, you can be treated like a king in the Philippines. He added, “It’s because of the Special Law on Prostitution in Korea.”
Then there are the students who come to learn English — to learn faster, apparently, they often live with local women and even father children before just packing up and returning to Korea. An official with a Korean expat organization said Filipino women don’t ask men to use birth control, and due to Catholicism and the cost, they don’t terminate pregnancies. The official said men who have visited the Philippines have to consider that they may have children in the country.
Due to this behavior, Filipinos are looking less and less kindly towards Koreans. One 26-year-old woman who lives in Manila told the Hanguk Ilbo, “Koreans who think they can buy a person’s feelings with money are really barbarians.”
Ouch.
Then there’s the dastardly Yomiuri Shimbun of Japan, which, in an article entitled “Skyrocketing Kophinos,” furtively mocked and criticized Korean men.
Double ouch.
You’ve even had local gangs — with the participation of Koreans — using promises of local women as bait to lure a kidnap victim, leading to a joint investigation (reported in the Korea Times here).
Expats and Korean welfare organizations are operating two nursery and kindergarten facilities in the country as well as forming measures to deal with the problem. Kim Hyeon-su, the director of a local Korean expat welfare body, said the Kophinos are the “love children of the Korean Wave,” and that Korea, which had a similar experience in the past, was making the same mistake and would pay a high price for it later.


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Unless these women were raped, they are not passive victims here. A woman having non-coerced sex without protection is making a choice, and I have little sympathy for women who won’t demand that condoms be used. Gangs running illegal brothels ought to be able to skirt restrictions to provide birth control, and it’s in their interest to help working prostitutes avoid pregnancy. Korean men who fucknrun are cads, but no law will remedy this, and no Korean man is going to cancel his sex tour because of media stories trying to shame men like him. A viable solution must target the women themselves, yet unfortunately, the “abstinence only” Catholic church is a serious obstacle.
So, Koreans don’t wear condoms when purchasing sex overseas. Will this finally put to rest the idiotic notion that it’s only foreigners who bring STDs and AIDS here? Somehow, I doubt it.
But I do love it whenever I hear of Koreans be tarred with the “durty furner” brush. Turnaround is fair play.
“love children of the Korean Wave”
what does this gibberish even mean?
Let’s not forget about all the Amer-Koreans that were left to grow up in Korea after the Korean War. The Korean people treated them like dog shit and still do today. Black people or mixed race Koreans are looked upon with disdain…at least where I live.
Seoul might be different, but I doubt it.
Men with power, influence and money always have sex with the locals wherever they go. It happens during and after every war.
It happens with tourism when tourists from rich countries goto poor countries.
I think it is time for Korea to think about repealing their “Special Law”, especially in an ailing economy. It is not working, Korean men still get their jollies off but in other less safe countries. Or in “hidden” way in Korea.
Wouldn’t it be better for everyone if Korean business men got back to making Korean bastards and not outsourcing them to poorer countries.
Ummm…
Apart from not wanting to get a girl pregnant, why wouldn’t you want to put your tool under wraps? Isn’t STDs a serious issue in the Philippines?
Also, my gut tells me that “Kophinos” are not the only love children roaming the Manila streets…
They’re a serious issue in Korea, too, hence the prevalence of urology clinics. Some men apparently are willing to risk STDs for the unhindered pleasure of going bareback.
Sonagi,
while I’d certainly agree that women with the education and social clout to know of and use condoms should certainly share responsibility for unwanted pregnancy should they fail to use them, your stance seems a bit harsh when we’re talking about women who by and large are poor, uneducated, and have little access to birth control. Add in strong religiosity and relationships where the men hold most of the control, and you’ve got a situation where the women are much less able to have access to and use birth control.
Someone ought to tell these guys about the Dutch Rudder, before they end up catching something. (And – not to forget the ladies – there’s always the Dutch Paddle).
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The women may be poor, but that does not mean they are unaware of the connection between sex and pregnancy. These women, poor and uneducated as they are, are choosing to have relationships with Korean men for whatever reasons. In some cases, the men may be providing some financial resources like rent or food in exchange for sex. I note the women’s choices and free will not to blame them but to make clear why a viable solution must target them and empower them, rather than useless media attempts to shame the shameless men. Birth control is legal; abortion is not. The USAID has been providing free and reduced cost birth control but is phasing out the program on the request of the Philippines government. Gloria Arroyo has expressed public opposition to artificial birth control, yet she has only one daughter. Maybe she can give her countrywomen tips on how to use the rhythm method successfully.
Being aware of the connection between sex and pregnancy is one thing, having safe, easy, inexpensive access to birth control AND the ability to make your partner use it is another. And in a situation where you are as disadvantaged economically and otherwise as the women we’re talking about are, it doesn’t seem terribly realistic to say they should just insist or be celibate. Many of them (particularly the prostitutes) are not in a position to insist. Certainly empowerment measures are a great step forward, but as you’ve already noted the Philippines government itself isn’t supporting that. The first thing that’s needed, before you can even begin a program of empowerment, is understanding these women’s lives and circumstances so that you can figure out what will actually work. Handing out condoms and giving a smattering of sex ed won’t solve this. In fact, a double pronged approach that targets the men as well is probably a bright idea.
I’m with red sparrow, I think. It would be wrong to take glee in this story the way some might, because: 1.) there is much misery here that one ought not trivialize, and 2.) feeling good about myself because I didn’t knock up an impoverished woman and leave her stuck is setting the bar a bit low.
Still, I think I would feel a certain satisfying schadenfreude if I were to staple a copy of this story to Lee Eun-ung’s forehead. Oh yes I would.
Filipina prostitutes are not innocent victims. They are being paid for their services, and many of them are intentionally trying to get pregnant to coerce guys into marriage or to get them to support them financially. The more babies, the more money. Also, it is a myth that Filipina prostitutes do not use condoms because of their religion. If a guy wants to use a condom, it is fine with them.
Yes, the Korean and foreign men who go to the Philippines for unprotected sex are irresponsible horndogs, but the Filipinos are also irresponsible. Many of the prostitutes in the Philippines are single mothers of children whose Filipino fathers abandoned them. Also, what is the Philippines government doing to help these children?
I have mixed feelings about the Philippines. On the one hand, I love the carefree, childlike attitude of many Filipinos, who are friendly and who laugh and smile quite easily. On the other hand, the country is full of crime, corruption, greed, and deception.
I think Korea and the Philippines can help each other because their comparative advantages are complementary, but there will also be a lot of culture clash. As both Koreans and Filipinos try to take advantage of each other, there will be victims on both sides.
so is the birthrate of Koreans really falling, or just being displaced to sex tourism destination?
Would repealing the “special” law on prostitution bring Korean semen back to Korea?
The USAID has been in the Philippines for thirty years, so its workers understand these women. Any program that targets men must communicate effectively why using protection is in their interest. An effective program would emphasize STD prevention through condom use, rather than birth control since these educated Korean men surely know that unprotected sex risks pregnancy and obviously they see this as their partner’s problem, not theirs.
you can’t blame the church for people getting std’s and children being born that weren’t wanted.
having sex is supposed to involve a consequence.
you are saying that man should artificially remove this consequence for pleasure.
i think having a lovechild is better than failing to reproduce.
that said, I would advocate most women to be on oral contraceptives and fuck only one partner for the rest of their lives.
the latter, you might disagree with. The former, you might agree with.
OCP’s have proven medical benefits, besides preventing birth.
there is no need of a condom, if people weren’t sleeping around.
The continent of Africa needs a generous supply of condoms. HIV-1, HIV-2. Life expectancy of 40. The South African govt living in denial. ANC.
Let’s talk about African American men who bang White American women.
Today, I saw a black business man, looking at his cell phone. It was a Samsung, touch screen. His wallpaper was a pic of him, and a white woman with tits bigger than his face. Her face wasn’t very good, however.
I used to make small talk with black men at school.
One of the things they were really into, was vacationing in Brazil.
The whole purpose of Brazil, was that these black dudes would have exotic sex with Caucasianoid Brazilian white girls, who provided sex at dirt cheap prices, relative to what you can buy in America. They said they don’t wear condoms, never got tested for AIDs, etc.
seemed to have an unhealthy bias against Sista.
I only write what I heard and seen.
Don’t throw any stones inside a glass house.
blaming the church is also disingenuous.
you act as if people in real life do what the church says, EXACTLY.
no, no, no.
the world is full of fucktards who are prone not to obey.
In the US Latino community, it is quite common for brothers in laws, sleeping with sisters in laws and some mad combination. Why? I think it stems from the fact that 5 households living inside 1 household apartment to save on rent has to do with it. “Why is my uncle sleeping with my mother”, kind of thing. Another reality, but unspoken social problem, brought to you by yours truly.
Is it Catholic to sleep with your brother’s wife?
Get real.
How dare you blame the church.
Church is there to say what is right.
Not to say what’s wrong, so more people will come to church.
“love children of the Korean Wave”
LOL
“Winter Sonata” gets the Filipinas dripping. Dripping, I tell ya. Dripping.
I’m not sure of the situation in the Philippines as I’ve never lived there. But I have lived in the developing/undeveloped countries in South America. There are major differences to having children in these countries. Unlike developed nations where children are a huge economic drain, they are an economic boon for the poor in these nations. Even if the father bolts, which he often does, and doesn’t support the family. It’s a sad truth that the child can be sent out to beg to support the family at 4 years old. Often netting more than the parents. By 10 he can be sent to work somewhere and continue to support the families. I lived in a poor city of 200 000 for a year, and if a girl hadn’t had at least one child by the age of 18 it was considered very odd. I dated this smokin’ hot 19 year old university student for a few weeks, (she had a kid), when I arrived. When it came to the point of having sex she was adamant that we use no protection and try to make a baby. Needless to say that ended it for me. I didn’t date much the rest of that year. The Philippines appears roughly the same in terms of economy, (and culture, with the impact of its Spanish colonial history), from my few visits there. It wouldn’t surprise me if a similar dynamic was effecting this situation.
This loser-drivel so bad that it must be inter-dimensional trolling! Couldn’t you find any Korean-American businessmen to hang out with instead or are they avoiding you too!?
wjk, are u serious or just insane??
what does the black guy with the phone have to do with black guys going to brazil??…and by the way, black american men don’t leave for brazil to find white chicks…there are plenty at home. (Have you SEEN brazilian women, my god!!)
and the church is certainly culpable? sure no one is a saint, but the function of the church i would argue is largely about herding, extorting and laying down a set of rules that then act as a substitute for the work of spiritual/personal development..
Sonagi, you talking serious sense, girl. You might be more useful as a guidance counselor than a classroom teacher. Think about it.
figbash, lovely display of sensitivity. But my Philippine travel experience leads me to say thusly: where foreigners are to be found, it’s the women who run everything. They’re the bosses, the managers, the workers (don’t know if they’re also the owners). The men, so far as I can tell, have no say over anything and no economic role other than driving. Also, condoms are everywhere and cheap. Maybe not off the beaten path, but anywhere Koreans are to be found, I assure you that a 3 pack can be had for a buck within a 1-minute walk of anywhere.
R.Elgin – of dda’s list of the disenfranchised, I have only enabled the banishing of wjk’s comments. Please, let me enjoy the peace without reproducing excerpts. Thanks!!
This situation is bad, but is generally the case of a rich population descending on a poor one. It’s up to the host nation to protect its women and become economically prosperous. It is also up to the sending nation to prosecute such cases, when practical. But ultimately it is up to the people involved in the baby making. I remember these stories surfacing in Tungtucheon, Songtan, Pyongtaek, back in Korea’s pre-prosperous times. There was a military civilian contractor douchebag (who will remain nameless) who used to run around, spot women with baby carriages, and duck into the nearest alleyway until they passed. His cohorts confirmed that he was not doing this in jest. There are some real dipshits in this world, and that is not going to change.
“Kophinos” is actually an ancient Greek word that means “wicker basket”. Just so you know.
The pinays already have a word that describes people of mixed ancestry. It’s “mestizo”.
The United States military, which has been producing illegitimate children around the entire globe since 1940, had a very special term for local women in The Philippines. I believe it was “little brown fucking machines” or LBFM for short.
No wonder the locals kicked the Navy out from Subic Bay.
On average Pinay women are much more beautiful than Korean women. I don’t understand why these Korean men are dumping their Pinay gf’s to go back to Korea. The Filipino culture is much more laid back, relaxed, and the people are friendly, which is the complete opposite of Korea.
I say with a sense of sadness and not smugness that I had been waiting for and expecting a story like this to come out for the last couple of years. I knew this phenomenon was going on, but not the extent. Not surprised.
I talked to an ex-Filipina KTV (noraebang) girl who got pregnant by a Korean businessman. She said that he insisted on using no condom, even though she asked him.
I think this may be the source of some unwanted kids – men customers can choose whether or not to use condoms, and many will not because it feels bad, they say. Availability of prophylactic devices is not the issue.
A few people here have already mentioned the historical irony of Koreans now doing to the women of other nations what was once done to the women of their own nation by the Japanese, Americans, and others. Rather than enjoy this irony, I point out sadly that so often in life the abused can later become the abusers. Of course, I am aware that the abused (or those taken advantage of, being the weaker partner in this power game) are women, while the abusers are men, I still think the truism holds.
Sonagi,
“Birth control is legal; abortion is not.”
Please explain, then, why the abortion rate in Korea is among the highest, if not the highest, in all of the OECD.
@Darth:
My statement about birth control and abortion was in reference to the Philippines, where the local women are having children by Korean fathers.
Their religion explains why they don’t use birth control. The illegality of abortion explains why the Kophino children are born.
Doesn’t explain at all the situation in Korea.
There’s an article about Korea’s abortion law here:
http://joongangdaily.joins.com/article/view.asp?aid=1932288
Since 1973, the Mother and Child Act has allowed doctors to perform abortions in cases of rape, incest, infection, the child’s disfigurement, or threat to the mother’ s health. They tend not to actually check if patients meet one of these conditions, however, and many provide abortions on request.
“The Filipino culture is much more laid back, relaxed, and the people are friendly, which is the complete opposite of Korea.”
My sister’s roommate in college was a pinay, a smart International Relations major who was straight from the Philippines. This gal often complained that Filipinos were often TOO laid back and not as focused as Koreans, hence the reason why their country is as fucked up as it is.
No, it doesn’t. Only sex between married couples without the use of artificial barriers to pregnancy is considered religiously acceptable to the Catholic Church. Unprotected sex between two people not married to each other is the mortal sin of fornication, condemned by St. Paul in 1 Corinthians 6:18. (FYI, both mortal and venial sins can be forgiven through the Sacrament of Reconciliation, but one cannot go to Heaven if one dies with an unrepented mortal sin on one’s soul) Birth control is legal in the Philippines despite the influence of the church and apparently, condoms are plentiful and cheap, so religion doesn’t explain why Filipino women bear children fathered by Korean men.
There are probably multiple reasons and individual circumstances. Some prostitutes may be forced to serve a man who refuses to wear a condom. Some women may for whatever reason have sex with a man who refuses to wear a condom. Some women might have gotten pregnant when the condom wasn’t used properly. Some women may have wanted to get pregnant to try to make the relationship more permanent.
Religion does not directly explain the failure to use effective birth control because a woman religious enough to avoid birth control is religious enough to avoid sex outside of marriage. The same does not hold true for abortion. A person can logically disregard the Church on birth control yet view abortion as the taking of a human life. I know of non-religious people who hold this view.
This is awesome. I love unprotected sex, especially out of wedlock, add to that illegitimate children and you have a recipe for win. I’d love to have my spawn spread across the third world, especially if I didn’t have to pay for them. Kudos to all the Korean guys out there following the 3 Fs.
Madar, that’s one of the most insightful things I have ever read on the comments section on Marmot’s Hole. Kudos to you. I never even thought about that angle… Holy crap… Really an eye opener for me.
This article and WJK’s response, living proof of how royally fucked-up in the head your average adjoshi really is.
Well, it’s not like those Koreans visiting here had a gun pointed on a woman and forced her to have sex with him.
The women were wanted for pleasure. The men were had for money. Isn’t this a universal truth? People will always find a way to get what they want, one way or the other. That applies to both sexes, not only one.
There were instances that some women were reportedly raped by foreigners (most recently of Korean nationality), and for that I truly condemn these perpetrators. But for those who got pregnant as a result of sex-for-money, there’s no easy answer to this as to who’s responsible. Some might say it’s the women (they sold themselves, didn’t they?). Some might say it’s the foreigner (what else did they come here for?). Others might say it’s society/the government/etc. (result of poverty? fault of religion?)
Funny how media can turn an incident into a one-sided story.
“This article and WJK’s response, living proof of how royally fucked-up in the head your average adjoshi really is.”
Okay?! because what does black men and brazil have to do with this article?I don’t quite understand the connection.
Regarding abortions in Korea… Western Confucian claims 1.5 million abortions per year and the Chosunilbo reports 1% of high school sophomores and seniors have an abortion before graduating… And I would suspect that young people make up a very high percentage of that 1.5 million…
well, allow me to clarify.
Korean men aren’t the only ones touring to have sex.
In Atlanta of the USA, there is a whorehouse guarantteing young white females who are guarantted to be ‘barely legal’. New York businessmen alleged take regular flights from New York City to Atlanta, Georgia to indulge in young, fresh, flesh.
Black men in the US. I hung out with these guys. In one of the three largest cities in America. These guys aren’t custodians. They are men with higher education. They were talking about their previous sex vacations to Brazil. And they were itching to go again. It was quote, unquote a sex paradise, for so little money. They disgusted me, but when you are with friends, you don’t say that shit. You write about it at the HOLE.
So, the relevance is, Korean adjoshi’s aren’t the only miserable lot on earth doing sex tourism.
Merry Christmas.
Jesus forgives you, if you ask him.
“Religion does not directly explain the failure to use effective birth control because a woman religious enough to avoid birth control is religious enough to avoid sex outside of marriage.”
Said by one who is not poor and doesn’t need to sell herself for money.
GK Chesterton once wrote: every man who knocks on the door of a brothel is looking for God.
“well, allow me to clarify.
Korean men aren’t the only ones touring to have sex.”
WJK who cares about other men? This is about Korean men not black men, white men or any other man but you seem awfully fixated on black men and once again where is the connection as it relates to this article.
Circumstantial ad hominem.
What does poverty have to do with avoiding birth control for religious reasons? As a previous commenter pointed out, condoms are cheap and widely available. If they’re not being used by unmarried couples, the reason is NOT belief in Catholicism, which condemns sex outside of marriage. In plain English, if the women can violate church teachings on sex to get money or for any other reason, they can also violate church teachings on birth control.
“well, allow me to clarify.
Korean men aren’t the only ones touring to have sex.”
Had this story involved American tourists, wjk would have been quick to generalize this to a sweeping condemnation of American society – whites and blacks in particular (American Asians get a by).
It is interesting that he does not generalize this to Korean society.
However, I’m not sure that we need to generalize at all, in either case.
i think you are missing the whole picture.
i have indeed made a broad attack on Korean Americans and their abuse of Korean-Koreans for sex in Koreatowns.
I respect Clint Eastwood. He shows it like it really is. I want to do things like he did before I die.
Is everyone a nerd here? Philipines has birth control and condoms. I don’t see prostitutes in general whether in a brothel or in their own home for free rent getting pregnant.
My point, these women are making their own conscious decision about whether to get pregnant. I fail to see them as victims as they could of said no or used protection. Even though the Philippines is a poor nation once of the first things that get transferred in terms of technology is birth control and medicine.
As sonagi said, regardless of education levels how you get pregnant is basic knowledge.
hello everyone. i jusst read this blog now but this was posted like 13 months ago. shame on me.. i wasnt able to read this before. but im happier though..because december was the month my kophino child was born.
i feel so hurt that these children including mine are called a Shame To Korean Society. i gave birth to my child in an expensive private hospital in cebu city. as im from cebu. i bought good things to my child as i am working. i am not a prostitute because i dnt need to. i finished university cum laude in a prestigious university in philippines. the point is..not all women who have been in love with a korean is just wanting to get out of poverty. i lived alone in an apartment after i graduated. i worked hard and i dnt need to send my parents money because they manage a farm in my hometown and my two brothers are working abroad. this is not boasting but i hate the fact that people are despising people like me who made “mistakes”. where i wont agre that it was a mistake. it was my choice. i love the korean man who is the father of my child though i am still in philippines because we wanted our child to learn english very well. as philippines is one of the best place to learn english. the korean man is supporting me and my child. he gave us things we need and things we want. see it’s not just about a lovechild but its about love.
more shmae to people who are ashame of the kids like my lovely baby with beautiful eyes. !!
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