Are you an Asiaphile with an unhealthy obsession with Asian women? Are you an Asian woman tired of creepy white guys hitting on you? Or are you curious as to what the hell a “rice queen” is?
Read on. But be warned. It ain’t pretty.
(HT to Occidentalism, where there is a long discussion going on you may want to check out)
PS: This part cracks me up, no matter how many times I read it:
Dan says his last girlfriend before undergoing what he calls “The Change” was another Ann. Annie, actually. She was Chinese American, a UCI student and a born-again Christian who claimed a “secondary virginity.”
By the conclusion of their five-month relationship, the secondary virginity had disappeared just as the first one had. Soon afterward, she made Dan disappear, too. Not long after that, Dan went through a tumultuous quarter-life crisis.
He’s now dating Frida, a fourth-year film major of mixed Mexican and European descent he met while working at a local movie theater. He’s glad to have renounced his narrow-minded ways.
“I was going through a lot of changes in my life and rethinking things,” he recalls. “My obsession with Asian women was one of the aspects of myself I found to be not healthy.”
He’s a new man, he says, living by a new philosophy: “Asian women tend to be mean, stingy abusers.”
Recovering Asiaphiles say the darndest things.
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There was a lot of blood spilt there.
From the article:
“When someone homogenizes an entire race of people—even if that homogenization tends toward desirable—that someone is creating a wall between himself and the person in question. No one likes to be treated as an outsider..”
Ahem… Good thing Asians never do this.
Whoever wrote that article has a lot of growing up to do.
I fervently desire to never be cured…
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Still, I bet her boyfriend’s white.
You think?
Insufferable fresh(wo)man prose and dodgy history, but she touches on some very live issues for her community.
The entitlement level of contemporary Asian-American women is just astounding. Basically, the article is saying that while it’s OK for Asian-American women to have a white fetish, it’s NOT OK for a white guy to have an Asian fetish. Typical, assbackward chick logic, to boot.
For centuries, we Asians have keep women in their proper places, taught them propriety as befits a member of the female sex, and trained them to respect males accordingly.
Then they got exposed to Western ideology, stupid artificial notions of “empowerment” and “equality”. Even you expats export these notions to Asian shores, thinking it gives you some kind of a competitive edge versus native Korean males. It doesnt. It just makes you look like a bunch of wussified, pussy-whipped fucktards and they know it too. Most Korean women married to expats control your asses.
We have you white guys to thank for the likes of Vickie Chang. Thanks, A LOT you dumb schmucks.
That article was pretty amazing.
(Don’t know how to blockquote)
Less than a month later, again at Detroit, another forgettable guy with crusty hands sauntered over to our table and said breathily, “I love this table! I just love it!” He stared at Christina, gesturing toward her with one of those crusty hands. “Especially you!”
I could add a few rice queen anecdotes in here but I won’t.
Don’t hold back, Bluejives. Tell us how you really feel.
I think most expats married to Korean women openly acknowledge that fact.
Blujives said “Then they got exposed to Western ideology, stupid artificial notions of “empowerment” and “equality”.
Ah, didn’t you get our clever gambit? Once we got empowerment and equality into their heads, the rampant sexual free-for-all began. Instead of having them holding us off till marriage for sex, now we get boatloads of the stuff with empowered and equal women, and if they get pregnant and the man doesn’t want to stick around, why well you’re empowered and equal, woman! Good luck raising that kid!
Tongue in cheek, maybe, but western women’s liberation is the greatest thing that ever happened to the single horny male in human history. Steinem and Jong were our unwitting useful idiot stooges.
“Most Korean women married to expats control your ASSETS.”
There, fixed that sentence for you Bluejives
Reference: “As all good Asian-American Studies minors know, the roots of Asiaphilia are planted in the soil of colonialism. Our European forefathers, viewing any foreign culture as backward, erased what they could of indigenous custom and inscribed upon the people their own authority. Thus did bloom the stereotype of Asian docility, submissiveness and lotus blossom beauty.”
Gee, that means (East) Asian women were empowered back in the days of bound feet and rampant Confucianism? Must be true, they only became a fetish once those hairly colonialist barbarians arrived. Pity I didn’t major in Asian studies.
By the way, why is sexual attraction among likes never held up to such analysis. Must be really racist to prefer a sexual partner who really looks like oneself.
lirelou, I wonder how she’d explain the fact that my wife is Asian and I’m neither white nor Asian. Besides, if someone should get my sympathy for haveing been victimised by colonialism, it won’t be the Chinese (remember Tibet?).
I see.
Well, I’d love to discuss the politics of pussy some more but I’ve got a date tonight. An Indian babe, one of those delicious über-trendy urban bitches, works at a cosmetics firm in midtown, and studying for an MBA. God, I love porking these women with hypereducated minds, watching them loving tongue-caress my Taepo-dong.
Have fun with the ajummas and the Itaewon bar skanks, fellas. See ya later.
bluejives wrote: Well, I’d love to discuss the politics of pussy some more but I’ve got a date tonight.
That is the second greatest line I’ve ever read in this forum.
bluejives wrote: Have fun with the ajummas and the Itaewon bar skanks, fellas. See ya later.
This is the greatest one line I’ve ever read in this forum.
God I love this blog.
Yellow Fever: there is no cure. And thank god for that.
I don’t get the whole yellow fever thingee…never have. Chicks R chicks, no? Hotties everywhere… But a good one? if she can take my paycheck, she can get my beer. The puss dries out, the beer better stay cold and keep a’comin… One that can talk is nice, too.
women’s liberation may be good for the genitals but it’s just bad for society at large. though i won’t be around, i fear the day when people will only be able read about the italiens, koreans, germans, japanese, ect. by way of history books. think about it.
‘we have children, they have dogs and cats.’ african immigrant to italy on the italien depopulation of italy
‘we will be fucking ourselves out of existance?’ sage pawi