Comments on: Well, this won’t go over well… http://www.rjkoehler.com/2005/10/15/well-this-wont-go-over-well/ Korea... in Blog Format Sat, 22 Nov 2008 00:48:10 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: JYC http://www.rjkoehler.com/2005/10/15/well-this-wont-go-over-well/#comment-24427 JYC Sun, 23 Oct 2005 18:23:36 +0000 http://rjkoehler.com/?p=2070#comment-24427 Chewie, I think you're projecting again, or otherwise hallucinating all your "enemies" into a single person. Don't take it from me though, you really should find out what your doctor, therapist, or social worker has to say. I've already alluded to the following: I dont get it. Why should I be considered hikikomori? You should ask the Korean girl I was out with last night if I am hikikomori?€? lol. Past puberty, most people consider boasting about one's own sexual prowess as a sign of overcompensation for serious personal inadequacies or acute social withdrawal, and I think you've already demonstrated this in spades. If you'd gotten out more in the past ten years, it might have occurred to you that nobody's actually impressed, or even offended by this outside of middle school locker rooms, or the script of an 80's John Hughes movie. Come to think of it, you are a bit like Anthony Michael Hall on the Breakfast Club trying to cover up his inexperience with false bravado, only 10 years older, having never gotten out of the house or gotten a job. Cheers! Chewie, I think you’re projecting again, or otherwise hallucinating all your “enemies” into a single person. Don’t take it from me though, you really should find out what your doctor, therapist, or social worker has to say.

I’ve already alluded to the following:

I dont get it. Why should I be considered hikikomori? You should ask the Korean girl I was out with last night if I am hikikomori?€? lol.

Past puberty, most people consider boasting about one’s own sexual prowess as a sign of overcompensation for serious personal inadequacies or acute social withdrawal, and I think you’ve already demonstrated this in spades. If you’d gotten out more in the past ten years, it might have occurred to you that nobody’s actually impressed, or even offended by this outside of middle school locker rooms, or the script of an 80’s John Hughes movie.

Come to think of it, you are a bit like Anthony Michael Hall on the Breakfast Club trying to cover up his inexperience with false bravado, only 10 years older, having never gotten out of the house or gotten a job.

Cheers!

]]> By: juan http://www.rjkoehler.com/2005/10/15/well-this-wont-go-over-well/#comment-24426 juan Sun, 23 Oct 2005 09:51:00 +0000 http://rjkoehler.com/?p=2070#comment-24426 Amen Amen

]]> By: nou http://www.rjkoehler.com/2005/10/15/well-this-wont-go-over-well/#comment-24425 nou Sun, 23 Oct 2005 09:46:31 +0000 http://rjkoehler.com/?p=2070#comment-24425 You remind me of the comic store guy on the Simpsons. For me, they are like Dr. Evil and Number Two in Austin Powers. They are living in their own world. You remind me of the comic store guy on the Simpsons.

For me, they are like Dr. Evil and Number Two in Austin Powers. They are living in their own world.

]]> By: dogbert http://www.rjkoehler.com/2005/10/15/well-this-wont-go-over-well/#comment-24424 dogbert Sun, 23 Oct 2005 06:22:51 +0000 http://rjkoehler.com/?p=2070#comment-24424 Don't hold your breath, Shak. Don’t hold your breath, Shak.

]]> By: shakuhachi http://www.rjkoehler.com/2005/10/15/well-this-wont-go-over-well/#comment-24423 shakuhachi Sun, 23 Oct 2005 03:43:54 +0000 http://rjkoehler.com/?p=2070#comment-24423 I?€™m not going to go into detail on the grab bag of issues (eg. paranoia, delusions of persecution, projection, etc.) evident in the above, but i?€™ll make the small correction that you have probably confused me with someone else as far as disapproval of interracial relationships. You really need to get out more. Yeah, you dont mind inter-racial relationships but you keep bringing it up, huh? By the way, I never said 'asian women come to me, i don?€™t go to them!'. Its a made up quote by nulji, that he keeps repeating, and refuses to show any evidence that I actually wrote that (because I didnt). Feel free to apologise. I?€™m not going to go into detail on the grab bag of issues (eg. paranoia, delusions of persecution, projection, etc.) evident in the above, but i?€™ll make the small correction that you have probably confused me with someone else as far as disapproval of interracial relationships.

You really need to get out more.

Yeah, you dont mind inter-racial relationships but you keep bringing it up, huh?

By the way, I never said ‘asian women come to me, i don?€™t go to them!’. Its a made up quote by nulji, that he keeps repeating, and refuses to show any evidence that I actually wrote that (because I didnt). Feel free to apologise.

]]> By: JYC http://www.rjkoehler.com/2005/10/15/well-this-wont-go-over-well/#comment-24422 JYC Tue, 18 Oct 2005 16:33:51 +0000 http://rjkoehler.com/?p=2070#comment-24422 How is it that I am suffering from ?€?acute social withdrawal?€™? OK. You are suffering from manic depression. My statement makes as much sense as yours, using the same amount of evidence (meaning none). Although maybe you could be called a stalker, as you have continually chased me around every post I comment on, obsessively. Really ironic because of the article above ... I dont know what is more pathetic, seeing you foam at the mouth when you see an international relationship (white man, Korean woman), or your total impotence to stop it. I'm not going to go into detail on the grab bag of issues (eg. paranoia, delusions of persecution, projection, etc.) evident in the above, but i'll make the small correction that you have probably confused me with someone else as far as disapproval of interracial relationships. You really need to get out more. How is it that I am suffering from ?€?acute social withdrawal?€™? OK. You are suffering from manic depression. My statement makes as much sense as yours, using the same amount of evidence (meaning none). Although maybe you could be called a stalker, as you have continually chased me around every post I comment on, obsessively. Really ironic because of the article above …
I dont know what is more pathetic, seeing you foam at the mouth when you see an international relationship (white man, Korean woman), or your total impotence to stop it.

I’m not going to go into detail on the grab bag of issues (eg. paranoia, delusions of persecution, projection, etc.) evident in the above, but i’ll make the small correction that you have probably confused me with someone else as far as disapproval of interracial relationships.

You really need to get out more.

]]> By: virtual wonderer http://www.rjkoehler.com/2005/10/15/well-this-wont-go-over-well/#comment-24421 virtual wonderer Tue, 18 Oct 2005 09:12:11 +0000 http://rjkoehler.com/?p=2070#comment-24421 Well... The Korean saying that the darkest place in the room being right below the candle-stand, I can't say for stalker Korean men... But I have to say that the author is pretty spot on about the generalization of Korean women. I just find it funny that this is probably the same reason why he went to Korea in the first place, and dare may I say it, the reason why lots of non-Koreans go in the first place. Some people want to eat hamburgers, other sushi. Yet others still, refuse to eat anything but jalapeno dowsed with chilli powder chased by a nice bottle of tabasco. I don't know why some people love to jam their fingers in the car door and repeat the bashing process. The world is a strange place. Well… The Korean saying that the darkest place in the room being right below the candle-stand, I can’t say for stalker Korean men… But I have to say that the author is pretty spot on about the generalization of Korean women.

I just find it funny that this is probably the same reason why he went to Korea in the first place, and dare may I say it, the reason why lots of non-Koreans go in the first place.

Some people want to eat hamburgers, other sushi. Yet others still, refuse to eat anything but jalapeno dowsed with chilli powder chased by a nice bottle of tabasco.

I don’t know why some people love to jam their fingers in the car door and repeat the bashing process. The world is a strange place.

]]> By: James http://www.rjkoehler.com/2005/10/15/well-this-wont-go-over-well/#comment-24420 James Tue, 18 Oct 2005 05:39:45 +0000 http://rjkoehler.com/?p=2070#comment-24420 Korean women are like pittbulls. They can be nice and well behaved but watch out if you get one pissed-they grab hold of an issue and do not let go. Where this comes from... I can only speculate. Korean men have contributed to their own misery with the binge drinking, room salons, refusing to help with the housework and other less than manly activities. Still, I have seen this phenomena increasing around the world. It seems that Korean women have decided that it is perfectly acceptable to be verbally and physically abusive with or without cause. I believe the problem is exasperated by the fact that Korea is such a masculine society and most men with any shred of self-esteem would rather be castrated than admit their wife opens a can of wupp-ass on them for something as trivial as disliking Pres Roh's personal beautification. I think there is a certain amount of public awareness (unfortunately not necessarily unacceptance) of spousal abuse where the man beats the wife, so much so that this is viewed as a perfectly acceptable excuse for divorce. I suspect that it will take a bad murder case where the husband is murdered by an enraged wife being publicized before people start to recognize the fact that it is a problem here in Korea. The whole gold digger attitude is another issue too but I won't get into that here. Korean women are like pittbulls. They can be nice and well behaved but watch out if you get one pissed-they grab hold of an issue and do not let go. Where this comes from… I can only speculate. Korean men have contributed to their own misery with the binge drinking, room salons, refusing to help with the housework and other less than manly activities. Still, I have seen this phenomena increasing around the world. It seems that Korean women have decided that it is perfectly acceptable to be verbally and physically abusive with or without cause. I believe the problem is exasperated by the fact that Korea is such a masculine society and most men with any shred of self-esteem would rather be castrated than admit their wife opens a can of wupp-ass on them for something as trivial as disliking Pres Roh’s personal beautification. I think there is a certain amount of public awareness (unfortunately not necessarily unacceptance) of spousal abuse where the man beats the wife, so much so that this is viewed as a perfectly acceptable excuse for divorce. I suspect that it will take a bad murder case where the husband is murdered by an enraged wife being publicized before people start to recognize the fact that it is a problem here in Korea. The whole gold digger attitude is another issue too but I won’t get into that here.

]]> By: shakuhachi http://www.rjkoehler.com/2005/10/15/well-this-wont-go-over-well/#comment-24419 shakuhachi Mon, 17 Oct 2005 22:22:48 +0000 http://rjkoehler.com/?p=2070#comment-24419 Yup, just what a hikikomori would say. You remind me of the comic store guy on the Simpsons. How is it that I am suffering from 'acute social withdrawal'? OK. You are suffering from manic depression. My statement makes as much sense as yours, using the same amount of evidence (meaning none). Although maybe you could be called a stalker, as you have continually chased me around every post I comment on, obsessively. Really ironic because of the article above. But Nakaoka also disparages Korean men, saying the majority are over-jealous stalker types. I feel sorry for you. I dont know what is more pathetic, seeing you foam at the mouth when you see an international relationship (white man, Korean woman), or your total impotence to stop it. Yup, just what a hikikomori would say. You remind me of the comic store guy on the Simpsons.

How is it that I am suffering from ‘acute social withdrawal’? OK. You are suffering from manic depression. My statement makes as much sense as yours, using the same amount of evidence (meaning none). Although maybe you could be called a stalker, as you have continually chased me around every post I comment on, obsessively. Really ironic because of the article above.

But Nakaoka also disparages Korean men, saying the majority are over-jealous stalker types.

I feel sorry for you. I dont know what is more pathetic, seeing you foam at the mouth when you see an international relationship (white man, Korean woman), or your total impotence to stop it.

]]> By: JYC http://www.rjkoehler.com/2005/10/15/well-this-wont-go-over-well/#comment-24418 JYC Mon, 17 Oct 2005 22:02:08 +0000 http://rjkoehler.com/?p=2070#comment-24418 ?€?asian women come to me, i don?€™t go to them!?€™ shakuhachi ?€?i was out with a korean woman last night.?€™ shakuhachi Yup, just what a hikikomori would say. You remind me of the comic store guy on the Simpsons. ?€?asian women come to me, i don?€™t go to them!?€™ shakuhachi

?€?i was out with a korean woman last night.?€™ shakuhachi

Yup, just what a hikikomori would say. You remind me of the comic store guy on the Simpsons.

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